Join me as I have one of the most transparent conversations I have ever had with Shinshuri of OracleTV. I will be discussing my dysfunctional behavior towards women as well as my own self-destructive behavior. My need for attention and the lack of self-love will be the topic of discussion. In this interview, I will be sharing with the world intimate details about my narcissistic behavior and unwillingness to take responsibility for my own life.
I believe that everyone knows this person, and some readers might even be this person. “Pretender” sounds an alarm to all who will listen, alerting them to the unscrupulous ways and unethical practices of the pretender, in hopes that readers will no longer be wounded, damaged, devastated, or disillusioned by his or her actions.
I admit to having worn a mask in order to advance my own interests, and will come clean about my own predatory behavior. My goal is to blow the cover off of the pretenders among us, thus freeing their unsuspecting potential prey to date, trust and love wisely and productively.
I hope that my candor will be a first step in helping to heal or prevent wounds like the ones that I have created in the past. I also wish to shine a light on the misguided ways of pretenders who may read this book. It is my prayer that they will see the errors of their ways and make a change in their personal conduct.
My message is one of personal growth and responsibility. It is my belief that growth is a choice, and responsibility is a lifestyle. In my public speaking, I focus on these themes, illustrating them with personal experiences from my own life. I contend that true personal fulfillment can only be achieved when one assumes responsibility for his own actions, progress and choices.